Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Kate and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day*

I went to bed Tuesday night with the expectation of sleep, but was awoken once by Cullen with a bad dream and two different times by Bennett wetting..two different beds... and three times by Wells, who just wanted to hang out. 
And I hate just hanging out at 3 (and 4 and 5:30) in the morning. 
Then I stumbled to pour coffee, put on a sweater because I thought it was Fall but it was really 97 degrees out and forgot to fix my hair. 
I could tell that it was going to be terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.  

I dropped C off at school and came home to change lots of wet sheets (and blankets and pillowcases- how does that happen?) and the baby would not take his morning nap. I went to make enchiladas for a friend who just had a baby, and for some real dinner for us later that night, with my own cranky baby crawling up my leg, but 3/4 the way through, realized I forgot the sour cream at the grocery store the day before. 
And I hate yogurt, so no substitute was around and dinner had to be forgotten. 
I could tell that it was going to be a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day. 
unrelated picture of Wells eating a lemon for the first time
I cleaned up my non-dinner mess and got a phone call from Best Buy, where my newly virused computer was hanging out, to say that my hard drive was failing and I needed a Recovery Disk for any hopes of retrieving anything and installing a new hard drive. I realized I have no such Disk. And a new one was another $70. And the now cost of fixing said virused computer (with all my pictures on it) was starting to surpass the actual cost the of computer. 
And I hate the thought of losing all my pictures.
I could tell that it was going to be a terrible, no good, very bad day. 

I got the little dudes and I out of the house and down to take pictures of a friend's new baby (with no enchiladas in tow) and wrapped sweet darling newborn Meg up in her pretty pink swaddle and went to redeem my day by taking gorgeous pictures of her... until my camera wouldn't click. But I knew I put my SD card in there because I remembered thinking that I was so glad I didn't erase the photos off of it after my photoshoot over the weekend so I could still edit them on Kev's computer if the virus on my computer wasn't a quick fix. So I opened the camera and saw that the SD card was indeed there, but it wasn't reading,...because somewhere in transit the side got knicked and now wasn't working. 
All pictures likely all lost. 
And I really hate losing pictures that people paid for.
I could tell that it was going to be a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day. 
B and Baby Meg
Then, I cried in front of my friend after I ran to the PX to get a new SD card, but came back with the one that wasn't compatible with my camera, even though the PX camera counter guy said it was the right one. 
 And I really, really hate crying in front of people. 
I could tell that it was going to be a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day. 

A little while later, I cried again, this time to my husband. Then felt like an A-Hole because I was crying over sour cream and pictures that can be re-made, when he was sitting without us (no enchiladas in sight) in his plywood-made room in the middle of the desert, half the world away, and yet, he was still trying to make me feel better. 
I could tell that it was going to be a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day. 

I picked up Cullen from school, excited to hear about his day, but he got in the car crying because
 "Today was hot dog, chips and cookies day at hot lunch and you packed me a ham sandwich and fruit and I was SO sad because I just wanted to buy a hot dog, chips and cookies and I never want you to make my lunch again." 
This was definitely a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day. 



But Mom (and her good wine she poured for me when I showed up, kids in tow, to complain about my terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day) says that everyone has bad days... even people who start off with successful enchiladas. 
Thanks Joan, and Fritz, who later that night came over to chainsaw down some crazy growing things on the side of my house..

Cheers to tomorrow.

*If Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day isn't part of your children's library, go get it today. We love it around here!








20 comments:

Unknown said...

I do hope tomorrow is a wonderful, fabulous, awesome day!

Jen said...

I hope tomorrow is a much better day for you!

Katiern827 said...

One of my favorite books of all time! We read it often, but we never wish it upon our dear friends. I'm so sorry you had such a day!!

Unknown said...

Praying for a better day tomorrow :) AND so thankful that you have good friends and family (and of course a wonderful husband) who are all there when those *terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days* happen!

Unknown said...

Praying for a better day tomorrow :) AND so thankful that you have good friends and family (and of course a wonderful husband) who are all there when those *terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days* happen!

Unknown said...

Praying for a better day tomorrow :) AND so thankful that you have good friends and family (and of course a wonderful husband) who are all there when those *terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days* happen!

Jessie said...

Oh, my! You win. I hope you get some sleep tonight. Also, if it makes you feel better, I lugged my entire desktop computer into Best Buy last week to fix Lightroom, of all programs, that wasn't working. Haha

Unknown said...

Yikes! Sounds like a glass of wine was definitely needed. I hope tomorrow is way better.. Also. I bet Kev would rather hear all of it then just the good parts. So i wouldnt fret too much.

Karen H. said...

Oh Kate, that does sound like a horrible day. I hope today is better...it can only get better, right? :)

Karen H. said...

Oh Kate, that does sound like a horrible day. I hope today is better...it can only get better, right? :)

Meghan said...

Oh that does sound like a bad day. I've had those kind of nights and mornings that put me in such a mood. I had the same realization that crying over wet sheets and whatever else was bugging me was silly but it's still hard to turn the day around. The picture thing would have put me over the edge. Hopefully today is better!

Kristin said...

I hope today is better!
Again, don't know how you're doing it…my days can be made or broken by 6am it seems these days. There's no rhyme or reason to it.

Traci@TheHallway said...

Good grief. I am so sorry it was such a bad day. And I love that we have men in our lives that no matter what they are dealing with always try to make the situation better for us! Hope Kev is safe and doing well. And your mom is right, and I'm so happy you have her close by! I wish my mom was as close right now with the god awful terrible twos I'm dealing with... But since she isn't I just drink by myself! Bahahaha!!

Hilary @ Peanut Butter Spoonfuls said...

Once it starts it just keeps going. Really hope today is better. Odds are it will be! Moms and wine solve so many things.

April said...

I hope today is better! That does not sound like a very good day at all! Technical issues with a computer and a camera is enough for it to be a bad day by themselves. Praying for you all as I can't imagine how hard it is to be away from your husband for such a long time.

Shannon said...

Oh girl. Yeah - I would have lost my shiz after the night night interruptions.

And for that you are a hero in my book.

Sheelah said...

Ugh, horrible day! I so hope today has been better. Oddly enough, I was thinking about you last night as I was TRYING to put Poppy down for bed - about how you're without your husband right now and raising your three precious, rambunctious boys. I almost emailed you just to check in, but then saw you had just posted so decided to just read that instead. Then, Poppy refused to sleep, and I'm just getting to reading it now. Alllll that blabbering to say, I'm thinking of you. Across the country and we've never met, but I'm in your corner!

Lauren said...

oh man, girl I hope you've had a better few days...and here's to the weekend!!! Those days are just awful, and all I tell myself is that at least I'm getting it all over with in one day instead of spreading it out over an entire week...but that certainly doesn't make me feel better in the moment!

Annette said...

Oh Kate! Thanks for being human. Seriously. If you always had great days, I think the rest of us would feel inadequate. I cried once over making chocolate covered strawberries, and then having them fall off the seat of my car into one melted chocolate mess. Never feel guilty about your feelings. Here's to wishing a lot of fun, good days ahead :)

Stephanie said...

Oh you poor thing! That does sound like a terrible, no good, very bad day if I ever heard of one. Whew, hope that's your only dose for a long, long time!